Estate Planning Is Not Just For Old People: The Benefits Of Early Estate Planning

Tragedies are not something we expect to happen to our families or ourselves, yet they happen too often. From Kobe Bryant to the father who died saving lives in the Camp Mystic flood of 2025, it's even more painful when a parent dies in a terrible accident, leaving behind young children and a grieving family.

Another tragedy that I see far too often is thinking you are too young to do estate planning.  Hopefully, these parents had done estate planning to protect the settlement of their estates for the children they loved so dearly.

Unfortunately, I have seen many instances where people don't believe they are old enough to think about estate planning, only for the need to arise sooner rather than later. Or, commonly, younger people believe estate planning is too expensive for them to take on at this stage in their lives.

Neither of these things is true! Estate planning is not just for the elderly, and with the right attorney, it can be more affordable than you think.

Why Should Young Parents Consider Estate Planning?

Estate planning is more important for parents with young children than for anyone else. If something happens to both parents in an accident, the remaining loved ones will be faced with creating guardianships "of the person" (to provide for the actual care and physical needs of the children) and "of the estate" (to deal with property or money for the benefit of the children). 

To compound this bad situation, the guardianship of the estate in Texas ends when each child turns age 18. How many 18-year-olds would you want to have control of any substantial amount of money or property?

The Benefits Of Estate Planning For Parents Of Young Children

The solution to avoiding the forced guardianships of minor children is to draw up a Will with trust provisions or a living trust. First, you can specify in your Will who you would want to serve as guardian "of the person" of your children. A guardianship proceeding would still be required, but at least you will have expressed your wishes regarding who the guardian should be. 

Texas law sets out a list of relatives who have preference in consideration for the appointment as guardian "of the person" if you fail to specify who you would want to serve. The person favored by law may not be the person you would wish to serve if you fail to provide for this in a Will. The court can override your designation if it feels that the person is highly inappropriate, but this rarely happens.

Second, if you set up trusts for children in your Will, you can avoid the complications of guardianship "of the estate." The trustee you name will control any inheritance left in the trust. Also, the provisions you make for trusts to hold assets for your children can extend the age when they would receive distribution far past 18, provide for periodic distributions at different ages, and place restrictions on their receipt of funds from the trust. 

For instance, many parents set out provisions that the child attend a minimum number of class hours and maintain a minimum GPA to receive funds while in college or other post-high school education. Other parents require drug testing to ensure the children remain drug-free while receiving trust funds.

At What Age Should You Start The Estate Planning Process?

Estate planning is a wise step at any stage in life when you acquire assets that are not subject to distribution based on payable on death or beneficiary designation. 

Even as a young, single person, estate planning is smart because if you do not have a Will, Texas law provides for your estate to pass to your parents, if they survive you, or if not, to your siblings. They certainly may not be the people you need or want your assets to pass to. 

If you are in a relationship with someone else or prefer that your estate pass to a friend or some other relative, you would want to provide for them in a Will.

Start Planning Early & Review Periodically

Some younger people put off estate planning because they know their family and financial situation may change drastically through the years. It is still better to start early to avoid unnecessary probate and inheritance complications and simply review your plans as time goes by. An estate plan should be reviewed periodically if:

• You acquire significantly more assets
• A new life event, such as a marriage, divorce, or birth of a child, occurs
• You want to make provisions for someone else significant in your life
• You want to make a charitable bequest
• You want to add trust conditions to govern the receipt of inheritance

Your Will can be amended by either adding a codicil (which really is just an amendment), or if the changes are major, by drawing up a new Will.

What Is The Cost Of Estate Planning?

A simple Will, even with trust provisions, usually ranges from $750 to $1,000 per person. The amount of money that would be required to settle your estate if you have no Will would be many times this amount. It's money well spent, even if you need to save up to pay for it!

If you need to consider estate planning for yourself, please contact Adair M. Buckner to discuss your options.

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** This material has been prepared for informational purposes only, and is not intended to provide, and should not be relied on for, specific tax, legal, or accounting advice. We can only give specific advice upon consulting directly with you and reviewing your exact situation.